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Home weddings require special planning
By DAVID BRADLEY
For AP Weekly Features
Saying "I do"
before assembled relatives and friends is a thrill for any bride or
groom. And increasingly couples are opting to recite their vows in
their own home or in the home of parents or friends. At-home
ceremonies offer charm and intimacy for small- to medium-size
gatherings.
But there’s more –
a lot more – to home weddings than opening the front door and
seating guests on folding chairs.
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"There’s an
enormous amount of preparation involved in a home wedding," says
Joslyn Dusablon of The Home Service Store – only months away from
her own wedding – at the home of a family friend. "It doesn’t
have to be terribly expensive, you just need to plan how the home will
handle visitors. What works for weddings applies to other events such
as anniversaries, retirements, club events or reunions."
Minimum planning time
is 60 days. Dusablon suggests the bride, groom and owners of the home
walk the exterior and interior to make notes on safety, appearance and
function.
Plan for your guests’
safety. Repair sidewalk and driveway cracks or crumbled sections. Add
solar lights or luminaries along sidewalks and aisles if the ceremony
is outside. Tighten and secure railings.
"Inside,
transition thresholds between different flooring, such as from carpet
to tile, will reduce the chance of accidental falls," says
Dusablon. Consider adding ramps for guests that might have trouble
navigating steps. Brighter bulbs in lamps and fixtures are a must.
Place your pets at a kennel during the event.
Of course, the home
must look its best. Power-wash windows, siding and driveways. Hire
lawn professionals to fertilize grass and eliminate weeds. Touch up
landscaping with fresh mulch and potted flowers or plantings timed to
bloom for the ceremony. Trim shrubs or trees that block or overhang
walkways. Have gutters cleaned, or if necessary, replaced.
Clean interior carpets
and seal against stains. Walls and wood trim should be repainted with
easy cleaning semi-gloss paint. Have heating and cooling systems
checked to ensure the units will function for the big event. Adding
window treatments also creates a nice finishing touch.
For the homeowner who
will use this event as an excuse to tackle larger home improvements,
Dusablon suggests concentrating on projects with the greatest impact
on the event itself. This includes replacing siding, windows or doors,
roofing or fencing to create a fresh look for the guests and provide a
scenic backdrop for wedding photos. The addition or replacement of
decks or sun rooms could play a pivotal role in where to hold the
ceremony or reception.
If there is inclement
weather, a homeowner might want to consider the availability of
interior space. A quick and easy way to increase this space is to
finish the basement with a basement finishing system that can be
installed in days.
"You’ll need to
give considerable attention to traffic flow and where guests will
spend most of their time," says Dusablon. Guide guests into the
home with decorative roping or potted plants. Store furniture that won’t
be used to make way for rental tables and chairs. Cordon off stairs or
portions of the home that are off limits to guests. Make at least two
bathrooms available and decorate them with fresh flowers and sachets.
New faucets or hardware are a pleasant touch.
Kitchens are the
centerpiece of many parties, but the proper role of the kitchen for a
wedding is food preparation. Serve food where guests will congregate,
either outside or in rooms set aside for guest seating.
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Here’s
Dusablon’s and The Home Service Store’s check list for
prenuptial preparations:
Walk the
premises to review safety and appearance issues.
Hire
professionals to clean carpets, windows and draperies.
Arrange for
repairs of sidewalks and driveways.
The lawn should
be fertilized, mowed, and landscaping refreshed.
Repaint
interior walls and woodwork.
Determine space
requirements for the ceremony and celebration party.
Create signs
directing guests to parking.
Rent tables and
chairs. Store unneeded furniture.
Install walkway
or path lighting, and add ramps for wheelchair access.
Replace
interior bulbs with higher wattage bulbs.
(The Home
Service Store manages home maintenance, repair and improvement
tasks in more than 130 markets nationwide and can be found at
www.TrustHSS.com.)
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